Q. Dear Smokey, I have a question for you. I have been having strange dreams of my deceased husband. This is happening all the time. Do you think I’m just missing him or do you think it means something more? Thank you. ~ Troubled

A. Dear Troubled: It seems like it’s both. Don’t worry. There’s nothing to be troubled about. These dreams seem like visitation dreams, in which case your departed husband is just trying to tell you he’s there, he’s alive on the other side, and not to worry. You may want to do some grief work, my dear. Remember, you still have and will always have a “relationship.” It’s just a different relationship now. Try to let him go as best as you can, so you both can move forward. Know that you will meet again. I hope this helps! Love, Smokey